Thando Msomi’s Marriage Sparks Concerns Over Age and Polygamous Dynamics

South African social media has been buzzing with discussions about Thando Msomi’s marriage, raising concerns about her age and the unconventional dynamics within her relationship. Married for two years, Thando faces criticism from some who believe she is too young for the commitments she has taken on.

Thando, wed to Siyacela Dlamuka since 2019, is making headlines for her assertive stance on her future. Despite societal expectations, she firmly rejects the idea of becoming a sister wife or shouldering the sole responsibility for the household. While she acknowledges her initial commitment to supporting her husband in his journey after dropping out of school in grade 9, she has clear aspirations beyond traditional gender roles.

In an era where social media can amplify personal stories, Thando’s situation gained attention after Siyacela expressed his desire for a second wife on the Moja Love show. This revelation seems at odds with Thando’s vision, which extends beyond being a caretaker to pursuing her own educational and career goals.

Thando, determined to complete her matriculation and become a social worker, believes her chosen profession will enable her to make a positive impact by helping those facing difficulties—a calling she values deeply. Her initial decision to marry at a young age was supported by social workers ensuring her well-informed choice, but doubts have emerged as her husband’s desires for a polygamous arrangement became apparent.
Despite social media calls for Thando to consider a divorce, she remains undecided. The couple’s journey began in 2016 when they met at a wedding, with Thando serving as a bridesmaid. Their union, initially living in different parts of KZN, was influenced by Siyacela’s father, leading to a church wedding with a six-month engagement.

Siyacela, on the other hand, has made it clear that he has no intention of seeking employment or returning to school. Instead, he expresses his desire for a second wife, suggesting that both wives jointly care for him. The contrasting aspirations within the marriage have sparked debates about societal expectations, the dynamics of modern relationships, and the agency of individuals in choosing their paths.

 

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Fans first saw the new woman on the Mzansi Magic reality show Uthando Nes’thembu, and the internet went crazy. A recent photo that was published of Musa and the woman with his present wives, MaCele, MaYeni, MaKhumalo, and MaNgwabe, prompted commentary from entertainment analyst @Jabu_Macdonald. MaKhumalo gave her a brash side glance, clearly not impressed.In a shocking turn of events, actress Ntokozo “Goldivah” Mzulwini, who is purportedly in the spotlight as a possible fifth wife, has been spotted with MaKhumalo together in a video shared by the former Imbewu actress.Watch the video below:Mseleku has already introduced the alleged wife-to-be. “He has introduced Ntokozo to them and the wives have already met her. But he is still trying to check if she will fit into the home. It’s not official yet but they’ve started shooting with her on the reality show.’ The source added that the family was at the Mseleku headquarters in Mzumbe, as Zimoja confirmed from the source.

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Musa Mseleku, a well-known polygamist, businessman, and reality TV personality, is preparing to take on a fifth wife. Actress Ntokozo ‘Goldivah’ Mzulwini may be next in line, according to ZiMoja.

Ntokozo is a singer, dancer, and actress. She played the role of Lindiwe Msweli, a waitress, in Imbewu: The Seed. She also acted in Uzalo and Umkhokha: The Curse.Ntokozo attended Durban University of Technology (DUT) to study drama and theater. She was born in Durban. When Ntokozo was young, she gave birth to her first child.According to ZiMoja, Mseleku has already introduced the alleged wife-to-be.When asked about the love affair, Ntokozo blushes and giggles and tells ZiMoja she can’t talk about it.The family was at the Mseleku headquarters in Mzumbe, the source confirmed, revealing this to ZiMoja.He has introduced Ntokozo to them and the wives have already met her. But he is still trying to check if she will fit into the home. It’s not official yet but they have started shooting with her on the reality show.She has also met the children and she is planning to have kids of her own to extend the family. Mseleku is smitten and doesn’t regret his choice.’

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Ntokozo, who is well-known for her roles in well-known South African television shows like Imbewu: The Seed, Uzalo, and Umkhokha: The Curse, is the newest member of Mseleku’s family, sources close to the story exclusively told ZiMoja. Many have been taken aback by Ntokozo’s apparent embrace of polygamy, despite her being described as youthful and lively.

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