Pam Andrews Opens Up: The Journey from Seeking Attention to Self-Acceptance
Pam Andrews, known for her role as Gail, Genaro’s wife on Rhythm City, has captivated audiences with her on-screen presence. Recently, she celebrated her 40th birthday by sharing a deeply personal and candid video on social media, where she reflected on her past behavior and her journey towards self-acceptance.
Seeking Validation Through Appearance
In the video, Pam Andrews revealed that her younger self often sought validation through her appearance. She admitted to wearing provocative and attention-grabbing outfits to ensure that she was always the center of attention, no matter where she went. Whether it was at a social event or simply shopping at the grocery store, Andrews confessed that her loud and outrageous attire was a deliberate attempt to turn heads and garner attention.“Looking back, I can see that I was desperate for validation,” Andrews shared. “I wanted people to notice me, to see me. Wearing those revealing clothes was my way of shouting, ‘Look at me!’ even if it meant attracting the wrong kind of attention.”
Understanding the Need for External Approval
Andrews now realizes that her need for external approval was rooted in unresolved issues from her childhood. She acknowledges that she used attention from others as a way to define her self-worth, which ultimately led to temporary satisfaction but not true happiness.
“I was using the attention from others to fill a void inside me,” she explained. “I didn’t understand back then that true validation comes from within, not from how others perceive you.”
The Battle with Depression
After returning to South Africa from London in 2015, Andrews faced a significant challenge. She intended to make a triumphant comeback in the entertainment industry but instead encountered numerous setbacks and closed doors. This period of her life led to a deep struggle with depression, as she found herself comparing her progress to the success of others and feeling blocked at every turn.