Sepedi wedding has many of the traditions and customs as the whole wedding ceremony is completed in some stages and the occasions starts from sending a letter from the groom family to the bride family to fix a date for the labola negotiation. Well it is said that it is negotiation but i my sense it is not because whatever the brides family ask them in exchange of their daughter they have to provide the that. Some ask for money, some ask for cattle and some are so casual to each other that they just can ask a bottle of Brandy or anything like that.