Shangaan people in South Africa are a people of brightNowadays however, the process has changed for the that have left the rural areas. In the rural areas, I still hear of families bringing together their children for marriage.For the most part, a man and a woman have to like each other, date and the guy has to express the intention to pay lobola or the woman.family want their child to marry into a good family, the family then is looked at to deem whether they are good enough for their child. Things that get looked at is the family’s wealth, popularity, their stance in the community, whether they are Christians or believe in or practice witchcraft etc.