Actor Sello Sebotsane apologizes for abusing Skeem Saam actress Shoki Mmola! Veteran actor Sello Sebotsane has publicly acknowledged and taken responsibility for past abusive behavior towards his ex-wife, actress Shoki Mmola, and their two children, Oratile and Karabo. The apology comes years after Shoki’s public revelations of the abuse she endured during their marriage.

On Tuesday, Sebotsane took to TikTok to share an emotional apology video, where he addressed both his family and his fans.

Sello Sebotsane’s Public Apology
In the video, Sebotsane expressed deep regret for his actions, stating:
“For the part I have played in hurting you, harming you, I am deeply sorry. I know words cannot mend what is broken. I am working on myself and I am looking forward to working with the young ones to try to stop this scourge because with violence we go nowhere.”

He continued to emphasize the importance of ending violence:
“Violence is no answer. It is not right. I repeat, it is not right. And us men, young boys, let’s learn to let it out, let’s learn to speak. Yes, be vulnerable. Someone somewhere will see and understand your pain and make you feel better, and only you can do that for yourself.”
Sebotsane also addressed his fans directly:

“To the fans, thank you for everything. Thank you for standing with me. To those I disappointed, I am sorry. I am only human. I don’t want to justify anything. Wrong is wrong. Let’s make things right. Let’s make this a better world. I will do it. I will do it my way.”

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Social Media Reactions
For weeks, Sebotsane has been trending on TikTok due to his online antics. However, many social media users consistently reminded him of the abuse he committed against Shoki, refusing to move past the allegations.

His public apology has sparked mixed reactions. Some have commended him for taking accountability and working on self-improvement, while others remain skeptical, highlighting the severity of the abuse Shoki experienced.

Sello Sebotsane apologizes
Sello Sebotsane apologizes

Shoki Mmola’s Abuse Allegations
Shoki Mmola first spoke publicly about the abuse in 2016, describing harrowing incidents that left her physically and emotionally scarred. She revealed how Sebotsane had groomed her from the early stages of their relationship, which began in 2003 when she was working on the set of Muvhango.

According to Shoki, the abuse escalated over time and eventually turned violent. One of the most traumatic incidents occurred when Sebotsane allegedly sat on her lap, choked her, and beat her until she bled. After the assault, he fled the scene.

Reflecting on the aftermath of the abuse, Shoki described how it affected her health and well-being:
“For the longest time I couldn’t laugh and not get a headache. I was frail. I was underweight. My skin was grey.”

Shoki’s detailed account of the violence highlighted the devastating impact of domestic abuse on survivors.