Pam Andrews Opens Up: The Journey from Seeking Attention to Self-Acceptance

Pam Andrews, known for her role as Gail, Genaro’s wife on Rhythm City, has captivated audiences with her on-screen presence. Recently, she celebrated her 40th birthday by sharing a deeply personal and candid video on social media, where she reflected on her past behavior and her journey towards self-acceptance.

 

 

 

 

 

Seeking Validation Through Appearance
In the video, Pam Andrews revealed that her younger self often sought validation through her appearance. She admitted to wearing provocative and attention-grabbing outfits to ensure that she was always the center of attention, no matter where she went. Whether it was at a social event or simply shopping at the grocery store, Andrews confessed that her loud and outrageous attire was a deliberate attempt to turn heads and garner attention.“Looking back, I can see that I was desperate for validation,” Andrews shared. “I wanted people to notice me, to see me. Wearing those revealing clothes was my way of shouting, ‘Look at me!’ even if it meant attracting the wrong kind of attention.”

Understanding the Need for External Approval
Andrews now realizes that her need for external approval was rooted in unresolved issues from her childhood. She acknowledges that she used attention from others as a way to define her self-worth, which ultimately led to temporary satisfaction but not true happiness.

“I was using the attention from others to fill a void inside me,” she explained. “I didn’t understand back then that true validation comes from within, not from how others perceive you.”

The Battle with Depression
After returning to South Africa from London in 2015, Andrews faced a significant challenge. She intended to make a triumphant comeback in the entertainment industry but instead encountered numerous setbacks and closed doors. This period of her life led to a deep struggle with depression, as she found herself comparing her progress to the success of others and feeling blocked at every turn.

Coming up on #SkeemSaam this new season in July 2024🚨
Lehasa asks MaNtuli’s blessings to pay lobola and marry Pretty 💍🤗❤Monday 1 July 2024
Episode 1

 
Season 13 premiere!

Lizzy is in a state of disbelief and distress over her mother’s arrest. Babeile shares a shocking theory about the identity of the serial killer’s accomplice. Lehasa surprises MaNtuli with an unexpected request.

Tuesday 2 July 2024
Episode 2

Lizzy struggles with overwhelming emotions as Jacobeth’s situation unfolds. Lehasa gives Kobus something to worry about. Benjy and Makwena manage to lift Charles’ spirits.

Wednesday 3 July 2024
Episode 3

Lizzy is shocked when incriminating evidence is found in her home. Moss discovers troubling information about his client. Charles is puzzled by his child’s situation.

Thursday 4 July 2024
Episode 4

Babeile is horrified to learn that a dangerous killer had plans to reunite him with his ancestors. Lehasa throws the ball back to Khwezikazi. Charles grapples with feelings of envy and social comparison.

Friday 5 July 2024
Episode 5

Lehasa pops the question. Babeile struggles with the aftermath of a chilling confession but there’s a bigger shock in store for him. An unexpected guest shows up on MaNtuli’s doorstep.

Monday 8 July 2024
Episode 6

Pretty’s good news backfires, causing unexpected consequences at work. Elizabeth finds support from an unlikely source. Salamina comes up with a plan that could provide Charles with much-needed financial relief.

Tuesday 9 July 2024
Episode 7

Lehasa shocks Khwezikazi with a generous offer. Pax catches Mr Kgomo in a compromising position. A troubling incident at Aprendo leaves Charles feeling exposed.

Wednesday 10 July 2024
Episode 8

Pax shares heartbreaking news with Mrs Kgomo. Khwezikazi throws unfounded accusations. To lift his kids’ spirit, Charles makes a promise he might not fulfill.

Thursday 11 July 2024
Episode 9

Lehasa agrees to Khwezi’s demands, but his conditions are lethal. Melita surprises Mr Kgomo with an unexpected request. Charles is pressured to consider Salamina’s business idea.

Friday 12 July 2024
Episode 10

The new HR manager poses a challenge for Mr Kgomo. Pretty confronts Lehasa about his true identity. Charles finally agrees to execute Salamina’s idea but doesn’t get the reaction he expects from her.

Monday 15 July 2024
Episode 11

A file from the past triggers Lehasa to do the right thing. Mr Kgomo plays with fire. Letetswe threatens to report Mahlatse to Charles for his new habit.

Tuesday 16 July 2024
Episode 12

Melita causes trouble for Mr Kgomo with HR. Khwezi finally hits the jackpot. Pax gives Mahlatse some bad advice, leaving Letetswe feeling unhappy.

Wednesday 17 July 2024
Episode 13

Mr Kgomo’s attitude towards Melita changes after discovering she saved his job. Tbose and Kwaito face challenges in their business, putting them in a difficult situation. Lehasa receives shocking news from Pretty.

Thursday 18 July 2024
Episode 14

Mrs Kgomo uncovers valuable information about her rival. Leeto schools Tbose about the dark side of business tenders. Francois confronts Lehasa about Level Cafe shares.

Friday 19 July 2024
Episode 15

Mrs Kgomo almost kills someone in front of students. Tbose is faced with a tough decision that could change everything. Lehasa opens up to the love of his life.

Monday 22 July 2024
Episode 16

Tbose takes drastic measures to save their company. Mrs Kgomo faces repercussions for her actions. Lehasa gets a surprise visit from someone dear to him.

Tuesday 23 July 2024
Episode 17

Pax and Mr Kgomo are devastated by Mrs Kgomo’s disappearance, while Melita sees an opportunity to replace her. Pretty puts Khwezikazi in her place. Kwaito is stunned by his business partner’s actions.

Wednesday 24 July 2024
Episode 18

Khwezi attempts to disrupt Pretty and Lehasa’s big day. Mrs Kgomo believes she’s getting closer to the truth about Melita but everybody else worries she’s losing it. Tbose tries to justify his actions to Kwaito.

Thursday 25 July 2024
Episode 19

The pressure mounts on a former beauty queen as the walls close in on her. Bra Boikie’s unexpected request throws Kwaito and Tbose into a total tailspin. Mosebjadi overhears a conversation she shouldn’t have.

Friday 26 July 2024
Episode 20

Mahlatse’s day of fun takes a dangerous turn. Mrs Kgomo receives shocking information about Melita’s past. Tbose and Kwaito realise the high price they have to pay for their dealings.

Monday 29 July 2024
Episode 21

Kwaito and Tbose are tasked with a risky mission. Mrs Kgomo has important news to share with Mr Kgomo but he has no time for her. Alfred corners Phoshoko for a confession about who corrupted Mahlatse.

Tuesday 30 July 2024
Episode 22

Melita comes face to face with her scary past at Capsy’s. Mahlatse awakens to the reality of his action. Tbose and Kwaito rope in Leeto to try and salvage the Bra Boikie situation.

Wednesday 31 July 2024
Episode 23

South African media personality and businessperson Lerato Kganyago recently shared a heartfelt message on Instagram, revealing that she had suffered her fifth miscarriage. This painful experience occurred on February 12, just two days before Valentine’s Day.

In her Instagram post, Lerato expressed her sorrow and gratitude for the support of her colleagues, family, and friends. She shared a scan from January 26, 2024, and a poignant message, saying, “Pardon my silence. This was the most happiest but became a painful part of this month. Thank you to my supportive colleagues and bosses, my family and friends. I’m strong and will never give up.”

 

 

 

 
Lerato’s journey with infertility has been long and arduous. In 2017, she revealed on social media that she could not have children, a fact she shared reluctantly after being asked about motherhood on Mother’s Day. In an interview with True Love Magazine, she spoke about suffering from fibroids and the complications it posed for her fertility.

The Emotional Toll of Miscarriage

Specialist wellness counselor Lauriahne Eksteen, who has also experienced multiple miscarriages, commented on the immense emotional toll such experiences take on women. She emphasized the importance of support for both women and men during such challenging times, highlighting that both partners need compassion and understanding.

“Most of the time, women lose confidence after suffering a miscarriage. Society often expects women to get over it and be strong, but the hurt is real, and the loss remains tremendous,” Eksteen said.

A Community of Support

Lerato’s candid revelation elicited a flood of support from fans and followers. Many shared messages of solidarity, expressing hope and encouragement for her future. Tweets poured in, offering hugs and positive affirmations, underscoring the collective empathy and shared pain within the community.

“Sending hugs to Lerato Kganyago.

In a heart-wrenching revelation, Mpho Xaba, the husband of the late Afro-pop sensation Zahara, has disclosed that he is still paying off her substantial hospital bill, amounting to R820,000, despite being excluded from her funeral arrangements and not knowing where she is buried. Zahara, whose real name was Bulelwa Mtukukana, passed away on December 11, 2023, after a three-week hospitalization in Johannesburg.

Xaba, an engineer and businessman, opened up to Sunday World about the painful experience he endured at the hands of Zahara’s family. He claimed that they mistreated him and sidelined him from the funeral preparations, removing him from the funeral program and preventing him from participating in any aspect of his wife’s final farewell.

The couple’s relationship was highly publicized, with Xaba proposing to Zahara in March 2023, followed by a traditional lobola celebration in November. Tragically, Zahara passed away before they could finalize plans for their white wedding. Xaba revealed that he had paid lobola for Zahara just weeks before her passing, making him legally responsible for her burial. However, he chose not to engage in legal battles with her family to protect her honor.

 

 

 

Xaba expressed his hurt and disappointment at being treated like an outcast by Zahara’s family, who had initially welcomed him with open arms. He stated that her sisters had called him “brother” but quickly turned against him after her passing. He accused them of lying and attempting to claim his properties, which he believes was a desperate attempt to cover their own financial struggles.

Despite the family’s betrayal, Xaba has taken the high road and chosen to focus on his healing process. He revealed that he underwent months of therapy to cope with his grief and pain. He also expressed his gratitude to Zahara’s medical aid, which covered R712,000 of her hospital bill, leaving him to settle the remaining balance.

The situation has raised questions about the management of Zahara’s estate, with her former manager, Oyama Dyosiba, declining to comment further and referring all questions to her sisters, Bandezwa and Lumka, who have taken over her estate. Dyosiba expressed his disgust at the situation, stating that Zahara’s family should be ashamed of their actions.

Xaba’s courage in speaking out about his ordeal serves as a testament to his love and dedication to Zahara’s memory. His selfless act of continuing to pay her hospital bill, despite the family’s betrayal, demonstrates his commitment to honoring her legacy. As the music industry mourns the loss of a talented artist, Xaba’s story serves as a reminder of the importance of compassion, forgiveness, and respect in the face of adversity.

South African artist Babes Wodumo is on a mission to preserve the legacy of her late husband, Mampintsha, who passed away in December 2022. She is calling on artists who worked with Mampintsha before his death to release the unreleased music or send it to her so she can release it under his label.

*Unreleased Music with Kabza De Small*One of the artists Babes Wodumo is targeting is Kabza De Small, who confirmed that he worked with Mampintsha on a song that has not been released yet. Kabza De Small promised Babes Wodumo that the song would be released, but she is still waiting.

 

 

 

 
*Mampintsha’s Unreleased Music*

Babes Wodumo revealed that Mampintsha worked with various artists before his death and that there are many unreleased songs that need to be shared with the world. She wants to ensure that her husband’s legacy lives on through his music.

*Kabza De Small’s Promise*

Kabza De Small confirmed that he has hundreds of unreleased songs, including the one he worked on with Mampintsha. He promised Babes Wodumo that the song would be released, but he wants to wait for the right time.

*Babes Wodumo’s Plea*

Babes Wodumo is pleading with artists who worked with Mampintsha to release the unreleased music or send it to her so she can release it under his label. She wants to ensure that her husband’s legacy lives on through his music.

*Mampintsha’s Legacy*

Mampintsha was a talented artist who made a significant contribution to the music industry. His legacy needs to be preserved, and Babes Wodumo is fighting to ensure that his music lives on.